DATING THE UNGODLY CHURCH MEMBER

Love is a beautiful thing. It causes people to sometimes love others even when they see how evil they are. We could say the heart acts differently when it's in love.
The same goes for a church girl in need of love and a steady relationship. But she desires to have one with a church guy but soon find herself attracted to one who was an active member of the church. Not until they got involved, she never saw his evil ways. Her eyes were wide opened, even at moments where he put her in positions where she had to compromise her faith in the name of ' I love him'.
She discovered who his true friends were and they were not God's children. They drank and feasted with the devil and made her to feast too.
She knew it was all wrong but still didn't want to leave. She knew she couldn't leave with her own power but with the help of God.
And God brought her deliverance.
Many have walked that line and never came back.
We should not be blinded by our feelings. Our eyes should be wide open. Be careful when you find out you are attracted to someone. It's all about hormones and not logical reasoning and leading of the Holy Spirit.
Before making any decision, ask the question, " is his/her way right with God?"
He could be an active member of the church. Your pastor could recommend him, your parents, friends, well wishers could recommend him but Will God recommend him? God will only recommend him, if indeed he has a relationship with Him.
Every woman's dream is to be with a man who loves her and would bring her happiness and joy and a happy home.
God also has promised to give us good gifts and only in Him can we be blessed with a good spouse.
Let the number one criteria be, as it is written in Micah 6:8
All you need as a single lady and a single gentleman is one who walks with God.
But first, you must have a relationship with God.
Many of us may have made mistakes and we think we may not recover. But commit everything to God and He will reveal to you why it never worked and then He will teach you how to get it right the next time you try.
In summary, you must work and walk with God and He will lead you to the one who works and walks with Him too. And then He would lead you both to a happy marriage.

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